Balancing Roles in an unbalanced World

The invisible burden of expectations of high-achieving women is silenting struggling. For many powerful women ambition intertwines with personal sacrifices. We are a dynamic force in our professional lives, maternal dedication, and spousal commitment. Yet beneath this facade of success and competence, there often lurks a silent, gnawing emotions of mom guilt, loneliness, fear of failure, tiredness, frustration, and resentment. The journey to success is not just paved with hard work and talent, but also with societal expectations.

As a professional, we are expected to compete with her male counterparts, often in environments skewed against her. As a wife, often the cornerstone of family emotions and logistics. And as a mother, the pressure intensifies, balancing the nurturing of our children with the relentless demands of our career and or business.

This juggling act, while admirable, is not without its costs. The expectation to excel in each role can lead to an undercurrent of resentment. We put more weight on ourselves that God requires for us. Without saying it out loud we tell ourselves “If I don’t do it, it won’t get done right”. I know I am not alone in the Amen Corner. My husband told me that I don’t have to do anything that I don’t want to do. If it doesn’t align with your purpose, our union, our family morals and values, say no. Immediately, the weights of perfection lighten.

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